18 February 2015

For British Nationals planning to get married in Philippines

Marriage license is the most important requirement to have for you to get married and without it, wedding preparations even how lavish or simple it is will be useless.

Okay, since we got engaged last November 2013, the rule for British Nationals who will be getting married in Philippines and based overseas was to apply for certificate of no impediment in UK Embassy where he is residing (which for us is UAE) and they will send it to UK Embassy in Philippines where we can collect it but as of 23rd June 2014, they changed the rules/ requirements to below:

From UK Embassy site:

The Consular Section now administers affirmations or affidavits to marry. Local authorities have confirmed that they will accept this document. This replaces the old-style Certificate of No Impediment (CNI)

You must prepare a type written affirmation of affidavit of marital status, following below template before you attend the Consular Section. British applicants are required to personally appear at teh embassy. Document must follow this template- Font size 12, Times New Roman, 1.5cm margin all around.



Note: An affidavit is an applicant's written statement confirmed by taking his/ her religious oath (e.g. oath on a Bible or Koran), whereas an affirmation is an applicant's solemn, non-religious declaration of his/her facts. You should bring supporting documents relating to the facts indicated on your affirmation/ affidavit. 

You may set an appointment with the Consular Section via the British Embassy Manila online appointment system www.britishembassymanila.clickbook.net or send them an email with three (3) prefered dates/ schedule at Manila.ConsAppointment@fco.gov.uk Consular staff will not process applications of customers who come to the Embassy without a prepared affirmation or affidavit or without complete supporting documents. You will be asked to book another appointment once all documents are ready

Supporting Documents (Provide originals and corresponding photocopies)

-  Original UK passport and original UK birth certificate
-  If widow/ widower, present original death certificate of deceased spouse, or a certified copy
     -  If spouse died in the Philippines, present:
              -  Original death certificate of deceased spouse
              -  Advisory on marriage (CRS Form 5) in lieu of a CENOMAR from the National Statistics                    Office
              -  Marriage Certificate with proper annotation declaring, if applicable, the presumptive death                  of spouse
-  If divorced/ annulled, present original divorce decree absolute/ annulment papers, or a certified          copy.
     -  If annulled in the Philippines, please present the following documents:
              -  Advisory of Marriage Records (CRS Form 5) in lieu of a CENOMAR from the National                      Statistics Office
              -  certificate of Finality and full court documents, including decision
              -  marriage certificate, with proper annotation declaring the marriage null and void

Due to the new rules, we sent them an email to set an appointment. We gave 3 preferred dates and they confirmed the first date but early morning so even though it will be an additional expense on our part, we flew back to Philippines and booked a hotel nearby the embassy to avoid peak hour traffic and miss our appointment. Please note that nothing mentioned that "I" (Bride) MUST be there but Steve said that it will be handy for both of us to be present incase they have questions.

Our appointment is at 0845hrs and reached the embassy at 0820hrs but upon approaching the guards and informing them about our appointment, we were asked to stay outside while trying to contact the staff inside the embassy so we stayed there with the rest of the people with appointments. It's already passed 0900hrs when they started calling people to enter the vicinity which is quite disappointing. 

On a positive side, we're second on the appointment list so it didnt take long for us to go inside and stayed in an air-conditioned room. Please make sure that you have all the requirements needed for your Affirmation/ Affidavit following above guidelines. The 1st couple before us who came all the way from Cebu wasn't able to process his authenticated Affirmation due to missing type-written form and they have to go back and set another appointment. 

Roughly, it only took 30 minutes for Steve to finish the whole process from submission of the requirements to the Consular up to receiving the authenticated Affirmation Certificate. The Consular asked Steve some details about where we met, how long we've been together and wedding details. 

UK Embassy Manila Address:
120 Upper McKinley Road, McKinley Hills, Taguig City 1634
Tel: 00632 8582200
(Behind Korean Embassy) 

Website for the complete instructions for application, including payment and requirements: 

For the Consular rates/fees, please refer to the link below:


IMPORTANT REMINDERS (from UK Embassy, Manila):

-  Under the perjury Act (1911) it is a criminal offence to knowingly make a false declaration.                Offenders face the possibility of a fine and/ or a jail sentence.
-  You should apply for a marriage license from the Philippine local icvil registrar once the                    affirmation/ affidavit has been completed. The process normally takes 10 working days.
-  Please fulfill other requirements set by the Philippine authorities. If your fiancee/ fiance was                previously married, you must ensure to submit their complete divorce/ annulment documents. 
-  You may wish to seek legal advice to ensure the validity of your fiancee/ finace's foreign divorce in    the Philippines. Certain restrictions may apply to Philippine nationals who were divorced overseas.
-  An affidavit/ affirmation does not make your marriage valid under UK or foreign law, or guarantee    to the local authorities that you are free to marry. You may wish to seek legal advice on this.

M7 Bespoke- Groom and Groomsmen's Attire

December was really a tough month for Steve and I, both wedding preparation and work wise but life must go on and since it's only 4 months before the wedding and he still doesn't have a suit, Steve has to focus and work double time to find a suit for him and for the men entourage.

Since it is a beach wedding and peak summer season in Philippines, wearing a suit is totally not advisable. Steve decided to have beige waistcoat and trouser for him and for his entourage.

When he had time to fly back to UK for a week, he had an opportunity to have a bonding with his best man, Nick and his wife Rachel in finding a wedding suit but to his dismay, the color he preferred is not available during winter in UK and when he returned home, we tried to look around but either no waistcoat or color available then I remembered M7 Bespoke. I used to check their FB page and website as I really like their work!

I tried contacting Moni, the owner of M7 Bespoke and to my surprise, she was very accommodating! I requested for an earliest weekend appointment since we're both not available during weekdays and we are an hour away from her not to mention that we're already running out of time as Steve's groomsmen we're all over the globe lol! She managed to squeeze her schedule to meet us.

First impressions last... I love the style of her jacket that time! How unique, tastefully designed and how bespoke it was and I know we're on the right track! She's the one we are looking for!

Steve told her what he wants; from style, to color, to type of fabric and the quality. In an instant, she pulled out a sample of the type of the fabric Steve's looking for and start discussing the details. She really nailed it! Steve, knowing how picky he is, was convinced that Moni of M7 Bespoke will be the one to make his and his groomsmen's suit!




17 February 2015

Confirmed Ysabela Florist


Since we will be having a beach wedding, we will be needing a great stylist and florist to transform an open beach to the style we envision for our ceremony and reception dinner... we all know that it will really be a hard work and only few can only really pull it off.

With the concept, Steve opted to leave it up to me and Revianne... I already have a vision but really can't find images or how to express exactly what that vision is but I do know the  following:
  • I don't like one color/ style look and roses...
  • My over all wedding color scheme is grapefruit, tangerine and lemon 
  • I don’t want fake flowers
  • I hate tear drop or ball bouquets
  • I want some unique elements and designs present but shouldn't be taken away the romantic scenic view of the beach especially during sunset and love the hanging lanterns/ lights to have a romantic feeling or atmosphere during night time. 
I discussed it with Revianne and with that in mind, she knew exactly which supplier to contact... Ysabela florist!

When we went back to Philippines for a short holiday, we had a chance to meet Ms. Weng to finalize everything and we're personally convinced that we made a right choice of having them as our florist/ stylist. She is so nice and very soft spoken. She knows what I envision and she already have a layout design which i really love! I also requested some additional accessories for the Junior Brides' bouquets and she was very generous to do it... free of charge!

I really enjoyed that meeting and while her discussing the details, I can no longer absorb what she's saying due to excitement! This is it... We are really getting married soon! After more than a year of preparation, it's all coming into place and by talking to Ms. Weng and Revianne... this is really a wedding dream come true to both of us!!!

Well, there's nothing wrong (I think!) to be a Bridezilla once in a while... Ms. Weng asked me some details/ ideas we like to make it more personalized and according to our taste and my response is...

"SURPRISE US MS. WENG!" hahaha! and she gladly accepted the challenge!!!

Well, I am not worried... with the design layout and how they presented it plus seeing some photos of their work and not to forget the help and assistance of Revianne (She knows our taste!) I know that they can pull it off!!!

Ohhh can't wait to see the result!


4 January 2015

Confirmed Fireworks: Dragon Fireworks by Hans Ong

During the Surprise Birthday and Engagement Party a year ago, Steve surprised me with some firework displays. Our neighbors and even the people nearby our area were amazed how pretty it was... Of course, you cannot blame them as we're only used to seeing fireworks during New Year's Eve and or Government Elections... lol :) If Steve managed to have it during my birthday then definitely he will have more than enough budget for the fireworks to our wedding!

Its already last week of our holiday in Philippines and we no longer have time to book for an appointment so we tried our luck and went to Dragon Fireworks office in Ortigas to meet Hans Ong. Unfortunately, he was out of the office for a meeting and not planning of coming back that day. We asked the assistant if we could have at least talk to him over the phone and to our surprise, he still remembered Steve and will be coming back to the office to meet us!

We waited for couple of hours but it is really worth the wait knowing that we don't even have an appointment but still, he accommodated us. It was my first time to meet him but you will instantly feel comfortable talking to him (actually to all the staff).

After the brainstorming and finalizing the details, Steve paid them cash... that is for the great assistance and Steve's love for fireworks!

To contact them:

DFX Professional Systems Inc.
Unit C-24, Bldg. B, Ortigas Home Depot, 
Julia Vargas Ave., Pasig City

Tel. 7065789 / 92, 5713871

Choosing Your Bridal Party

Agonizing over which friends and/or relatives will be your bridesmaids and/or maid/matron of honor? Choosing the bridal party can be difficult for even the most blunt and straight forward bride-to be. Consider the below factors before making your choices:



How Many?

Are you a bride with few close friends, or a social butterfly? Do you have a large family unit of female cousins and sisters? Will your wedding be a grand affair, or a small and intimate event? All these points need to be considered when choosing how many people you will have in your bridal party.




Bear in mind, the more bridesmaids you choose, the more complications could arise, too many opinions can spoil the fun. Remember, if you are on a tight budget, YOU are the one who pays for the bouquets, the gifts and sometimes the bridal party attire, so choosing a few close friends/family members may be the better choice. However if budget is not an issue to you and you simply can’t choose between your close ones, there is no rule of thumb these days as to how many bridesmaids you can choose, although do consider the amount of groomsmen your groom will have, you don’t want a completely uneven number..

Where do they live?

If you're an expat bride like me, which means you are likely to have close female friends on both sides of the pond. What do you expect from your bridesmaids? Will simple moral support suffice, or do you expect hands on assistance with D.I.Y projects, décor, etc? If it’s the latter, think twice about asking friends who live far away, firstly they won’t be on hand to help you 24/7, secondly, they may not be able to afford the expense of travelling to be at your wedding. You don’t want to find yourself getting frustrated with a friend you knew wouldn't be able to give you all the help you wanted or even be able to make to your wedding. However, if your only care is to have those closest to you on the day, then asking someone back home could be an option, they are more likely to be life time friends who know you better than anyone.

I personally asked my sister to be my Matron of Honor, two of my of my closest female friends, two of Steve's family friend and the rest are my cousins staying in Philippines. 

Other Honors

If you feel as you have had a hard time making your bridal party decision, bear in mind that there are plenty of other roles good friends can play in your wedding if they have not been chosen, such as handing out programs, performing a song or reading a poem. For us, we will be having a Secondary sponsor to light the candle, to put the veil and cord.


Proposing:

Lastly, asking your bridal party to be your bridal party can be fun! Why not send them all a special handmade card entitled ‘Will you be my………? or invite them for lunch and surprise them all with your question, or you can do what I did, giving my chosen ladies (within reach) a gift with a question answerable by yes or no!


They all loved the attention to detail and gladly accepted.